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","publicID":"omimzb8xgjsr6whesmm5","externalURL":"https://img.kumparan.com/image/upload/v1573450243/omimzb8xgjsr6whesmm5.jpg","awsS3Key":"2019/Nov/image/omimzb8xgjsr6whesmm5/","height":667,"width":500,"locationName":"Jakarta, Indonesia","locationLat":-6.2087634,"locationLon":106.84559899999999,"mediaType":"IMAGE","mediaSourceID":"8","photographer":"Shutterstock","eventDate":"2019-11-11T05:39:42.868772Z","__typename":"Media"}},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"","marks":[]}]}]},{"object":"block","type":"caption","data":{},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"Ilustrasi berhubungan seks. Foto: Shutterstock","marks":[]}]}]}]},{"object":"block","type":"paragraph","data":{},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"Selama pandemi ","marks":[]}]},{"object":"inline","type":"link","data":{"href":"https://kumparan.com/topic/virus-corona"},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"virus corona","marks":[]}]}]},{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":" masih berlangsung, masyarakat diminta untuk menjalani ","marks":[]},{"object":"leaf","text":"social ","marks":[{"object":"mark","type":"italic","data":{}}]},{"object":"leaf","text":"atau ","marks":[]},{"object":"leaf","text":"physical distancing","marks":[{"object":"mark","type":"italic","data":{}}]},{"object":"leaf","text":" untuk mencegah penyebaran virus ini. Hal ini tentunya membuat Anda dan suami lebih sering menghabiskan waktu bersama di rumah.","marks":[]}]}]},{"object":"block","type":"paragraph","data":{},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"Rupanya, pada waktu ini dapat menjadi momen untuk Ada dan suami meningkatkan hasrat bercinta, jika sebelumnya terbilang jarang untuk berhubungan seks, misal karena sudah sibuk atau lelah bekerja. ","marks":[]}]}]},{"object":"block","type":"paragraph","data":{},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"Menjadi penting tetap menjaga keintiman suami istri dengan berhubungan seks, sebab, hal itu merupakan salah satu kunci sukses untuk mempertahankan keharmonisan rumah tangga, meski sudah memiliki anak dan sibuk bekerja. Demikian yang dikatakan Psikolog Keluarga, Rosdiana Setyaningrum, MPsi, MHPEd, pada ","marks":[]},{"object":"leaf","text":"live streaming","marks":[{"object":"mark","type":"italic","data":{}}]},{"object":"leaf","text":" bersama The FPeople di akun Instagram @/the_fpeople, pada Minggu (6/4). ","marks":[]}]}]},{"object":"block","type":"paragraph","data":{},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"\"Intim itu adalah salah satu yang merekatkan pernikahan,\" ujar Rosdiana. ","marks":[]}]}]},{"object":"block","type":"paragraph","data":{},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"Lantas, bagaimana caranya untuk membiasakan kembali untuk berhubungan","marks":[]}]},{"object":"inline","type":"link","data":{"href":"https://kumparan.com/topic/seks"},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":" seks","marks":[]}]}]},{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"?","marks":[]}]}]},{"object":"block","type":"figure","data":{},"nodes":[{"object":"block","type":"image","data":{"image":{"id":"1578646574563511741","title":"Ilustrasi seks ","description":"Ilustrasi pasangan ejakulasi dini ","publicID":"qag3oiwtzgzczgpgn3ap","externalURL":"https://img.kumparan.com/image/upload/v1578646532/qag3oiwtzgzczgpgn3ap.jpg","awsS3Key":"2020/Jan/image/qag3oiwtzgzczgpgn3ap/","height":4912,"width":7360,"locationName":"","locationLat":-6.213519,"locationLon":106.822266,"mediaType":"IMAGE","mediaSourceID":"8","photographer":"Shutterstock ","eventDate":"2020-01-10T08:56:14.52558Z","__typename":"Media"}},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"","marks":[]}]}]},{"object":"block","type":"caption","data":{},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"Ilustrasi berhubungan seks. 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