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Mulanya meranjak dari kecemasan.","marks":[]}]}]},{"object":"block","type":"paragraph","data":{},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"Rasa cemas ini dapat muncul dari ketakutan akan tertular penyakit menular seksual, takut hamil, ataupun rasa bersalah. Secara umum, kata dia, dapat dikatakan dampaknya beruntun.","marks":[]}]}]},{"object":"block","type":"paragraph","data":{},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"\"Pertama pasti kecemasan. Karena yang namanya One Night Stand (ONS) sekalipun atau FWB sekalipun itu tetap ada dampak-dampak terhadap kesehatannya dulu secara umum,\" ujar Aida kepada ","marks":[]},{"object":"leaf","text":"kumparan","marks":[{"object":"mark","type":"bold"}]},{"object":"leaf","text":", Jumat (25/11) pagi.","marks":[]}]}]},{"object":"block","type":"paragraph","data":{},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"\"Artinya bisa menimbulkan kecemasan. 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