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","marks":[{"object":"mark","type":"italic","data":{}}]},{"object":"leaf","text":"Foto: Shutterstock","marks":[]}]}]}]},{"object":"block","type":"paragraph","data":{},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"Kamu yang tak punya pasangan di masa pandemi ini terhitung beruntung. Sebab, punya pasangan tapi harus menjaga jarak karena corona bisa bikin jengkel. Bagaimana cara mengobati rindu kalau tak bisa bertemu? Mau video call sex? 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Kata dia, videoku jadi kotak-kotak gitu, kayak 3GP gambarnya,” seloroh Tyas yang kini terpaksa menjalin hubungan jarak jauh.","marks":[]}]}]},{"object":"block","type":"paragraph","data":{},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"Semula jarak Yogyakarta-Temanggung tak jadi soal baginya. Sang kekasih, Dhanu, telah terbiasa bolak-balik mengunjungi di sela jadwal manggung di sekitar kota Tyas. Namun, setelah dua tahun lebih berpacaran jarak jauh dengan intensitas pertemuan yang cukup rutin, kini keduanya benar-benar harus menahan rindu. Sudah berbulan-bulan mereka tak bertemu. 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Jadi nunggu sebulanlah kira-kira, dia karantina mandiri di sana (Bandung),” jelas Anton.","marks":[]}]}]},{"object":"block","type":"paragraph","data":{},"nodes":[{"object":"text","leaves":[{"object":"leaf","text":"Pada masa-masa tersebut, lelaki 29 tahun ini begitu jenuh karena harus terpisah jarak dengan sang istri. Demi sedikit menghibur hati, keduanya kerap melakukan ","marks":[]},{"object":"leaf","text":"sexting","marks":[{"object":"mark","type":"italic","data":{}}]},{"object":"leaf","text":". “Sebelum ini juga suka kirim foto-foto di IG atau Twitter yang relevan dengan kami. Foto yang ","marks":[]},{"object":"leaf","text":"kinky-kinky","marks":[{"object":"mark","type":"italic","data":{}}]},{"object":"leaf","text":" gitulah. Waktu LDR itu jadi lebih intens,” ujar Anton. 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